Success and money are not to be pursued – attract them instead


This one is really twisted and ironic tough nut to crack for so many.  The more you feel entitled to respect, success, money, positions, status etc (can you complete this list?) the less you will get.  Conversely, the more you work on yourself, the greater the chance that you will all but automatically attract these… Read More Success and money are not to be pursued – attract them instead

When our communication goes downhill because of gender differences


Going to pre-marriage counseling was the best thing that happened to my wife and me.  Relationship conflicts by the vast majority are related to how the two genders look at each other’s communication style – it may just not be personal after all.  Generally speaking, men get quieter during conflicts and woman get louder because… Read More When our communication goes downhill because of gender differences